Australian cricketer Michael Klinger has penned an emotional letter on the Perth Scorchers website revealing his wife of almost 10 years, Cindy, is battling cancer.
The 37-year-old, who signed with the WACA in 2014 and became the oldest Australian debutant in a T20 earlier this year, wrote the words on Tuesday night so his teammates and WA cricket fans knew what was going on this summer:
Last week, my wife Cindy had a routine scan on her back, which had been causing her pain and no physiotherapy or anti-inflammatory tablets seemed to help.
The result of that scan completely shocked and devastated us.
Doctors identified three spots on her vertebrae that required further investigation – within hours, we were told she had cancer.
A biopsy was taken of the lesion and determined that my wife of almost 10 years had breast cancer that, based on the information we have so far, has spread to at least those three spots identified on her spine.
I know a lot of people think very highly of their own loved ones and I’m no different – to me, Cindy is the most beautiful person, inside and out.
She is the most considerate and selfless person I know, who is willing to help anyone with anything they need at the drop of a hat.
We have three children: Bailey, 7; Summer, 5; and Easton 1.
We had to tell Bailey and Summer of the fight their mother now faces, which is something I wouldn’t wish on anyone.
In fact, along with delivering a eulogy at my mother’s funeral, it was the hardest and most terrible thing I’ve had to do in my life.
I have never considered myself to be the most skilled or flashy batsman going around, but every time I step on the field, I do so with a winning and competitive attitude – I’m a fighter.
For the 14 years since I met Cindy, she has been my No.1 supporter, my confidante, my motivator, my carer. My everything.
But our roles reversed from the moment we found out Cindy had cancer.
Cindy must now take the mantle as the ‘fighter’ and bring a positive and winning attitude to every treatment and hurdle she runs into along the way.
I, on the other hand, need to become chief carer, supporter and motivator.
Playing cricket, right at this moment, is secondary.
It still may happen, because Cindy wants me to play and says it will be a good distraction for her and the kids to see me do so, either on TV or at #TheFurnace.
But, by my choice, if playing clashes with any appointments or treatments, or if Cindy or the kids need me, I will be by their side.
I started writing this piece in the middle of the night, when my thoughts and emotions refused to let me sleep, and I began wondering why I was doing so.
Firstly, it’s helping to get some things off my mind, which has been running at 100 miles an hour for the past two days, trying to arrange for Cindy to see the best people in the breast cancer field in Perth.
I also wanted to explain to my teammates, who I adore and admire so much, and to the Perth Scorchers fans, who I have grown to love, what is happening and that I hope they don’t think I’m letting them down.
Finally, I am privileged to work for the best organisation in Australia in the WACA and the Perth Scorchers, an organisation that has the most caring staff and unbelievable group of human beings.
I just want them – from the staff to the players – to know that I’m not letting them down and I’m just doing what I need to do for my wife and children during this totally unexpected and very difficult time.
Cindy will fight and we, as a family, will be right there with her throughout the battle, supporting her in every way we can.
But, particularly at this time of year, that battle has brought us a perspective on life that we never expected.
Leading into the festive season, give your loved ones a big hug and a kiss.
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